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Helping to Facilitate the Participation of Children with Disabilities in Community Settings

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The Community Connections Communicator --
November 2003

In this Issue:

The theme of this month’s issue is Fostering Friendships

blue arrow Tip Sheet: Let’s Play Together
  This tip sheet provides information on how to foster friendships between children with and without disabilities. It gives tips on expanding a child’s social circle and making and keeping friends.
blue arrow Article: How To Encourage Friendships for Children with Disabilities
  This article provides valuable information on how to help younger and older children develop friendships.
blue arrow Spotlights of the Month:
 

Me, Too!
A family friendly learning series of six books with emphasis on helping families of preschoolers discover and foster positive inclusive opportunities in various community settings.

Kindermusik of Bowie/Crofton
Music, movement, socializing - - a great recipe for making friends.

Maryland National Capital Area Park and Planning Commission
Recreational programs, various fun classes, and kids day out programs, can all help foster relationships between children with and without disabilities. Find out all that MNCPPC has to offer for the entire family.

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Recommended Websites:

 

Prince George’s County Memorial Library System
www.pgcmls.info

Howard County Library System
www.hclibrary.org


Tip Sheets

Let’s Play Together….
Fostering Friendships Between Children With and Without Disabilities


Why is it important for all children to have friends? How can you help create an atmosphere that will develop friendships for your child? This tip sheet, provided by the Public Broadcasting System (PBS) Parents website, discusses the importance of developing friendships between children with and without disabilities. Such positive outcomes from fostering friendships include: helping the child increase his/her self-esteem, increasing the child’s emotional and intellectual development, broadening your child’s social experiences, and most of all having fun. This tip sheet provides information on finding activities that your child will enjoy in order to help them meet friends who have similar interests. Such activities in the tip sheet include having your child: take classes at your local community center, attend an after school or weekend program, and join an organization such as the Boy Scouts or the YMCA. The tip sheet gives further suggestions on how to keep friends once your child makes them, through scheduling easy to do activities such as play dates and buddy shopping trips. To learn how to enhance your child’s friendship circle, click on the link below to view the full tip sheet for more suggestions:
http://www.pbs.org/parents/issuesadvice/inclusivecommunities/friendships.html

Additional Tip Sheets include:

Social Interaction Barriers and How They May Be Overcome
This tip sheet provides seven easy tips on how to help children develop healthy friendships. Provided by the Beach Center on Disability, this tip sheet is a good resource for teachers as well as family members of children with disabilities. Click on the link below for the entire tip sheet.
http://www.beachcenter.org/stories/default.asp?intResourceID=73&act=detail&tip=true&type=topic&id=8

Involving Peers
This tip sheet is also provided by the Beach Center on Disability. It outlines 10 tips on how to include peers of students with disabilities in helping them foster relationships in the classroom. This is a great resource for teachers. Click on the following link for further information.
http://www.beachcenter.org/stories/default.asp?intResourceID=66&act=detail&tip=true&type=topic&id=8

Articles

How To Encourage Friendships For Children With Disabilities

Friendships are essential in helping children develop socially, emotionally, and intellectually. Based on your child’s disability and specific needs, you may need to provide some facilitation in helping your child build relationships with other children. This article discusses the importance of friendships as well as the ways in which families can help children foster those relationships.

In helping younger children develop friendships, the article provides such suggestions as: discussing the child’s disability with his peers, having children play in small groups rather than larger groups, and playing games that encourage children to play with one another. Information is also provided on fostering friendships with older children as well. The article provides a brief summary of “winning strategies” that can be used to help create an atmosphere that will encourage the development of friendships.

To view the entire article in a PDF format, click on the link below:
www.vtpic.com/FRN-FS-002.pdf

Additional articles include:

Friendships and Stories: Using Children’s Literature to Teach Friendship Skills to Children with Learning Disabilities
This article provides strategies to teach children how to develop appropriate skills needed for making friends. For the entire article, click on the following link:
http://www.ldonline.org/ld_indepth/teaching_techniques/childlit_socskills.html

Personal Relationships Between People With and Without Disabilities
Check out this question and answer article on friendships to find out answers on why friendships are important, and what makes developing friendships difficult. To view this entire article, click on the link below:
http://soeweb.syr.edu/thechp/relshp.htm

Preschool Holds Key Social Opportunities For Kids With Special Needs
This article provides an overview of how teachers can help children with disabilities develop friendships inside and outside the classroom. To read the entire article, please click on the following link:
http://www.specialednews.com/early/earlynews/preschoolfriends121299.html

Exceptional Parent Magazine has a wealth of information for parents of children with disabilities. An article on helping preschoolers make friends, can be obtained using the following reference:

Hanson, M., Morgan, M., Gutierrez, S., Barnwell, D., and Beckman, P. (May 1997) Finding Friends at School and at Home: Parents’ strategies for helping pre-schoolers develop friendships. Exceptional Parent Magazine, 24-26.
You can contact Exceptional Parent Magazine by clicking the link below:
www.eparent.com


Spotlights

Me, Too!
Paul H. Brookes, Publishing Co, Inc.
P.O. Box 10624
Baltimore, Maryland 21285-0624
1-800-638-3775
http://www.pbrookes.com/store/books/hanson-5087/

This is a great set of six books geared toward helping families of preschool age children with disabilities build community connections. This series was edited by Dr. Marci J. Hanson, Professor of Early Childhood Special Education at the San Francisco State University and Dr. Paula J. Beckman, Professor of Infancy and Early Childhood Special Education at the University of Maryland. Through suggestions on making new friends, achieving positive behaviors, adapting environments to enhance children’s participation, preparing for preschool, and accessing community programs, families and providers learn how to help develop positive and successful relationships for children with disabilities.

The set of six books includes: Introducing Me, It’s Time for Preschool, My Community, My Family, My New Friends, On My Best Behavior, and Look What I Can Do Now. The books can be purchased as a set or individually. To order the books, please contact Pbrooks, at 1-800-638-3775 or visit the following link: http://www.pbrookes.com/store/books/hanson-5087/


Kindermusik of Bowie/Crofton
Gail Trafelet, Director
(301) 249-9188

Kindermusik of Bowie provides opportunities for children with and without disabilities to discover the great expressions of music such as singing, moving, dancing, and playing various instruments. An array of sessions, are provided at a cost. In addition to the sessions, Ms. Trafelet, the Director of Kindermusik, also provides a free Kindermusik session every first Tuesday of the month at Border’s Books in Bowie at the 10:30 a.m. story time. For further information about Kindermusik and/or the free story time, please contact Ms. Trafelet at (301) 249-9188.


Maryland National Capital Area Park and Planning Commission

Provides inclusive activities in various areas for children with disabilities. In addition to their Therapeutic Recreation Programs and Inclusion Services, children with disabilities are encouraged to enroll in any activity of interest, and provide a two-week notice for accommodations and support staff. Activities include aquatics, crafts, dance, martial arts, performing arts, etc. For further information, please contact (301) 699-2480. Please check out the following link for additional information:
www.pgparks.com

 

Recommended Websites:

Prince George’s County Memorial Library System
Story-time and Other Activities
www.pgcmls.info

For children ages newborn and up, the Prince George’s County Memorial Library System provides daytime and evening story times, book clubs, and home school groups, at many of the libraries throughout the county. Check out these great events that will help your child develop early literacy skills as well as make new friendships.

Please note, the library system provides accommodations for persons with disabilities, which include sign language interpretation for library programs, wheelchair access, large print books, and other resources. For further information on these programs and services, please contact the administrative office at (301) 699-3500, or click the following link: www.pgcmls.info


Howard County Library System
Story time and Adapted Toy Lending Program

Central Office Children’s Librarian
Cari Gast
(410) 313-7825
www.hclibrary.org

Howard County Library System provides an array of story times and programs that can suit just about every family. With advance notice, the library system can provide sign language interpreters for story times and other scheduled programs. They also have devices available for persons with visual impairments. In addition, Howard County Library has a Disability Information Specialist on staff. If you have a little one with a disability, the library system has put together an adapted toy lending program. This program allows you to check out fun adapted toys to try at home with your child. If you would like to gain further information about the programs and services provided, please contact the Ms. Gast, the Children’s Librarian, at the Central Office at (410) 313-7825 or visit the link below:
www.hclibrary.org


We currently offer training and technical consultation to businesses, churches, and other community organizations to help make them more welcoming to families and children with special needs. If you know of a business or other organization that would like to take advantage of these services, please e-mail us at: communityconnections@umd.edu
OR
If you know of a business that is already welcoming to children with special needs and their families and you would like to share this information with other families and professionals, please send us your name as well as the name and contact information for the business with a brief description of why you believe they are welcoming to families. If appropriate, we will post the business on our website and we may even feature it as a 'Spotlight if the Month'. E-mail your submissions to: communityconnections@umd.edu

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